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Stop Being Yourself At Work Is BAD ADVICE! The Identity Crisis Keeping You Broke & Broken

October 2, 2025·58m

What happens when success costs you your identity? Dr. Joel Tubman (author of "The Fight to Find Yourself") and I have the most raw conversation about pretending, grief, and the dangerous cost of not knowing who you really are. Dr. Joel opens up about losing his son, battling suicidal thoughts, and realizing he'd been performing his entire life. I share my story of pretending in relationships and how grief led me down a destructive path. This is about the REAL work of finding yourself—and why therapy isn't optional. Mentioned In Today's Show: 📖 Get Dr.