How to Make Your Child Feel Seen: The Science of Mattering | Gordon Flett – EP 733

Why do so many children feel invisible, even in homes filled with love?Today, on the official launch day of my new children's book, You Matter, Luma, we are diving into the heart of why "mattering" is the most important foundation we can build for the next generation.Joining me is Dr. Gordon Flett, the world’s leading researcher on mattering and author of the groundbreaking paper on "Anti-Mattering." In this conversation, we reveal a startling disconnect: while only 8% of parents think their child might feel they don’t matter, nearly 35% of youth report feeling insignificant or uncertain of their worth.Dr. Flett explains why mattering is a "foundational human need" and how we can bridge this gap to protect our children's mental health.This conversation builds on the You Matter series—featuring leading thinkers like Barry Schwartz, Rebecca Newberger Goldstein, Daniel Coyle, Sonja Lyubomirsky, Harry Reis, and Paul Eastwick—and arrives at a powerful conclusion:Mattering isn’t a luxury. It’s a core human need.If you’ve ever questioned your place, struggled with invisibility, or wondered how to help others feel seen—this episode offers both scientific clarity and human hope.Passion Struck is the #1 alternative health and personal growth podcast dedicated to human flourishing and the science of mattering.